Everyone has their own standards of sexy.
The umbrella of "sexy" covers many ideals.
Over the years, so to have ideals, examples and vision of what it is that defines sexy.
Sex, in general terms, was considered to be a non-conversational topic.
Once movies became a big part of everyone's life, the idea of liking large women was less and less likely to be entertained by many males. Big Screen sirens were usually skinnier than most women for their time. The reason was simple; cameras add pounds to anyone's form, so screen actresses tended to be thinner than average in real life to appear normal on the screen. Gradually, the the sexy standard gradually shifted from voluptuous to thin.
There is now a trend underway that is moving the concept of what is sexy to larger sizes.
With plastic surgery, big boobs are back in vogue, even on skinny women.
Push up bras with double padding are hot selling items among the slim set, but when their dates see them while horizontal on, the jig (jug?) is up. Men are let down with falsie wearing women. Because of this, many men are increasingly look at more naturally enhanced women, so voluptuous is back in vogue. And on that note, who is more voluptuous than a big beautiful woman?
When you look back through the larger part of history, voluptuous women were considered to be most desirable. Larger women were seen as mother figures, and children were a necessity in nomadic and agricultural societies. Even in cave man days, small statues often depicted their goddesses as voluptuous women and in most cases these figurines were more obese than just curvy.
The lyrics in "Fiddler On The Roof" (If I Was a Rich Man) a story about Russian peasant society in the early 1900's exemplifies a rich man's wife as having a proper double chin. In other words, throughout most of history, being meatier was a status symbol, because it proved you had an abundance of food, and therefore must be well to do.
Towards the end of the twentieth century, there has been a new incoming citizens from many different societies into north America. With these cultural groups have come a preference for larger families and women who will bear larger families. The curvy lady is back in vogue.
Who knows, maybe in a few more years, Hollywood starlets will be big beautiful women. Mae West was very voluptuous, but in the early twentieth century she was most men's epitome of sexy.
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